Why Elopements Are About YOU (and Not What Anyone Else Thinks)
It’s your day. Your love. Your adventure. Your elopement.
But in the world of Pinterest-perfect weddings, family expectations, and society’s opinions, it’s easy to feel like your personal vision has to fit into someone else’s idea of what’s “right” or “normal.”
Here’s the truth: Eloping is about celebrating you and your love, exactly as it is. It’s not about pleasing others or ticking off a list of what’s expected.
So, let’s talk about why it’s totally okay to ignore the outside noise and focus on the intimate, incredible experience you deserve.
🥂 1. Your Love, Your Way
The biggest reason to elope is simple: You get to do things your way. No pressure to please anyone else, no big guest list, no long speeches, and no following a rigid script for what a “wedding day” should look like.
You’re choosing to break free from expectations, and that is a beautiful, empowering thing. Whether it’s exchanging vows on top of a cliff in Moab, in the quiet of a forest, or on a sandy beach under a setting sun—you and your partner get to choose the moments that feel the most you.
Want to keep it super intimate with just the two of you? Perfect.
Dreaming of an adventurous desert hike in your wedding attire? Heck yes!
Feeling like a simple ceremony followed by a champagne toast in your favorite spot is the way to go? I’m here for it.
Your love story doesn’t have to fit anyone else’s mold.
💬 2. The Pressure to Please (Ain’t Nobody Got Time For That)
We get it. Everyone has an opinion about your big day. Whether it’s friends, family, or social media influencers—people love to weigh in with their thoughts. But the truth is, no one knows your relationship, your vision, or your priorities like you and your partner do.
Here’s the deal: You do NOT have to cater to anyone else's expectations.
Does Aunt Carol want you to have a “traditional” wedding in a church?
Does your cousin feel like your wedding isn’t “real” unless you have 300 guests?
Are your friends pressuring you to have a 6-course meal and a choreographed first dance?
Yeah, those might be nice in their own way, but they’re not your vision.
Your elopement is about creating the kind of day that makes you feel joy, excitement, and peace. It's about living your love story exactly the way you want it to unfold—no compromises necessary.
🌄 3. Why the Adventure of Eloping Feels So Right
Elopements aren’t just about skipping the big wedding—they’re about choosing an experience that’s personal, meaningful, and freeing.
Imagine this: The two of you, standing hand in hand on a mountain overlook or walking through the arches in the desert, saying your vows in complete privacy, surrounded by nature and the elements. Just you two.
No timelines to follow.
No “will Uncle Bob make it to the ceremony?” stress.
No vendor checklist to worry about.
It’s just your love and the open sky. The world is at your feet, and you have complete control over the day’s pace. And that’s incredible.
👏 4. The “Shoulds” Aren’t for You
Here’s a little secret: There is no “right” way to get married.
Some people may try to convince you that your wedding needs a certain number of guests, a huge cake, or a ballroom dance. But let’s be clear: These are all just options—NOT requirements. If you don’t care about them, don’t stress.
Do what feels right for you. Want to wear something non-traditional? Go for it. Want to skip the cake cutting and do a first dance under the stars instead? Absolutely. There are no rules, no limitations, and no one to impress.
✨ 5. Embracing the Freedom of Eloping
The best part about eloping is the freedom to create a day that feels true to you and your partner. Without anyone else’s opinions hanging over your head, you can focus on what really matters: your connection.
And guess what? The photos and memories will be so much more meaningful when they reflect your true personalities and the genuine moments you share. You’ll look back on your photos and say, “Wow, that was our day, in the purest form possible.”
💍 6. How to Handle Outside Opinions (AKA How to Stay True to Yourself)
Now, I’m not saying you should ignore everyone in your life completely. Family and friends are important, and their support matters. But when it comes to the day you choose to say “I do,” you are the ones who get to make the final call.
Here’s how to handle the pressure:
Set Boundaries Early: Let your loved ones know what you’re planning and why. Be firm about your choice to elope. Chances are, they’ll respect it, especially once they see how happy you are.
Focus on the Positive: There’s no need to engage in debates about why you’re eloping. If people are supportive, wonderful! If they have questions or concerns, politely redirect.
Remember the “Why”: Eloping is about your love—not anyone else’s. Keep your focus on that, and the rest will fall into place.
🌟 7. The Only Opinion That Matters? Yours
At the end of the day, your elopement is about you and your partner. This is a day to celebrate your love, your journey, and the future you're building together. When you let go of the outside opinions, you give yourself the freedom to create a day that reflects who you are as a couple. It’s about being authentic and following your hearts.
Ready to Plan Your Dream Elopement?
If you’re ready to take that leap, I’m here to help you plan the elopement of your dreams. We’ll work together to create something that’s 100% you—no compromises, no compromises needed. Just pure, raw, unfiltered love.
If you want something completely unique, adventurous, and filled with memories that only you two can share, let’s chat. Together, we’ll make sure that your day is as spectacular as your love story.
You deserve to elope your way.